Here I am. Writing this new entry as I think I wanna updating my blog every day as my daily diary.
So, Today my entry entitled as " When we're meant to be, then we're meant to be"
It's quite simple quote actually.
At this very age, I don't see the vision yet to have a marriage, personally. But I don't know about what other people's opinion. Like we have our own personal opinion right?
It is not I'm denying and disagree on the purpose of marry in the very early age. Like even our own prophet, Nabi Muhammad done that before. But like seriously, he got his own reason right?
Like in my case, I just simply think that if you want to get married in the early age, you have to be well prepared mentally and physically.
My definition of physically here is based on your economic aspect as we all know most people who wanna get married are physically fit.
I've seen some of my friends, who get married in the early aged, have such a pathetic life. They neither have money problem, nor can't get along with their own in law family , even their own partner. In that case, I assumed that this "teenager" actually just not well prepared to getting into marriage life.
Well, we all know right that most of the teenager want to be free, enjoying their life with their friends, go for study and for some, they might want to get a job first.
It's quite hard actually for a teenager who didn't prepared in any aspect to just go in into husband and wife relationship. Like seriously, when you get married, you are also married to their family. In this such cases, many young parents especially couldn't get along with their family in law. Based on my friend experience, they even arguing on a small matter.
I don't think that I have to mention other stuff here as I think that you guys also know what I meant.
Like there's an advantage nor also disadvantage on getting married early.